What's up y'all?! This week has been quite a roller coaster ride but it flew
by! We had zone training on Tuesday and found something out that blew our
minds! Our goal for 2013 as far as baptisms go is 450, we are only at like 230,
so pretty far behind. President Smith has been talking with general authorities
about the changes coming up in missionary work and about goals for next year
and has set a goal for 550 baptisms for 2014. What awesome faith that my
president has in the new revelation our prophet has given, we're going to do
it! After zone training I had my tradeoff with the zone leader Elder Judy in
Navarre. I SAW THE BEACH FINALLY! It was a really good tradeoff and I learned a
lot from him on how to become a better companion and missionary but the most
exciting thing about the tradeoff was at night. We were driving home and it was
dark and then out of the trees we see this MASSIVE black bear run across the
street, it was so cool! it was a little scary knowing that we were only about a
half mile from our apartment but it has been the coolest thing to happen on my
mission so far. I have been feeling really inadequate this past week and have
been praying and searching hard on how to become better at the things i need
to. I always feel like missionaries kind of blow smoke up the green
missionaries butts on how good they are doing but Elder Judy, Nelson, Foster, and
Wilkey have said that this new generation on missionaries are more prepared.
Elder Nelson told me last night he feels like I've already been out 6 months and
that I'm training him. Its nice to hear and I feel that that was genuine. I
still have things to become better on and still have those feelings of
inadequacy which is good because I am, I'm representing the Savior himself here!
I feel like I am becoming use to being on a mission since I'm starting to get a
few mission dreams instead of dreams about home, they'll always be there though!
The count this week is 153lbs! I'm doing a little better. On my tradeoff with
elder lane I made my(Kari bates) biscuits and gravy for lunch and they think
that I am some amazing chef, haha I love it. Elder Lane was talking about how
he wants to lose weight and he said he tried to eat more to exercise his face
muscles but it didn't work, hahaha the kid is so funny! We were trading back
over at pine forest area and they got these super hot jalapenos from a member
over there and I didn't believe them since it was just a jalapeno so I tried a
sliver of one. HOLY SMOKES! I've never eaten something so hot in my entire life.
I was literally crying and then I made the stupid mistake of wiping my tears
with the hand i ate the jalapeno with so then my mouth and eye was killing me,
worst decision of my life! I'm good now though. I filled my prescription this
week at Walmart and while we were at the counter this crazy guy comes up to us
and starts bashing us like crazy! In a Walmart line of all place. He didn't know
much and was so rude. Elder nelson and I agreed it was the worst bash session
we've been in on our missions so far. He rebuked us to hell in the name of Jesus Christ with no authority so he wont have a fun time on judgement day...punk! I
cannot believe school has started all over the nation, one summer down on my
mission, one to go!
This week I wanted to talk about a talk that I
studied in my personal study. Its called "His Grace is Sufficient" by
Brad Wilcox. If you only do one thing that I ask you on my mission from these
emails READ THIS TALK. It has changed my life and view on the atonement than
anything ever has. I know that this talk was written through revelation. I'm not
going to expound on it at all, I just want y'all to go read it. I know that this
church is true and that we are the ones that are to take it to the world. I
love and miss y'all. All is well.
Elder Welch
This past week has flown by and I think that this next week will go by
even faster since I have a tradeoff with the zone leaders tomorrow and one with
my boy Elder Lane on Friday! He goes home in January and he’s already requested
me as a companion. I really hope I don’t "kill" him (Serve with him
his last transfer). This last Tuesday I had a tradeoff with Elder Simmons and stayed
in Fox Run. He hits his year mark this Thursday. On Thursday we
did some mormon.org things so we could get use to that since that’s what we
will be doing once we get iPads. Anyway, we get done with that and go to bike
back home and just barely leave the parking lot when I try to hop a curb.
Something that happened that happens to all missionaries.....my bike tire popped. All we could do
was laugh about it, good thing bike tires are cheap! Last night we went to a
Baptist Manor to visit one of our members there that doesn’t get a lot of
company. Once we finished up with him we start heading out to talk with him a
little bit in the hallway and out of nowhere all of these old crazy people bombard us! One
was yelling, “Please Lord help me". One was trying to
get me to take them out of the manor, one asked me how much they paid me and
said she would double it if we would stay the night. One of them asked me to mow their lawn. It was the most hectic, crazy, and funny thing that’s
happened to me so far on my mission. I thought it was cool that the one old
lady saw Elder Nelson and me as representatives of Jesus Christ without us even
telling her and she was too old to be able to read our tags without glasses for
sure. Elder Nelson and I died laughing once we got out into the car. After we
were at the manor we headed to dinner over at the primary presidents house, and
no I didn’t call her crazy or tell her she was in the primary because she is crazy. Anyway, we get done with dinner and her husband was
about to give his children back to school blessings when he offered to give us
a blessing as well. I had been
wanting one just to kind of guide me and a boost so I was so happy he asked.
Some of the things that he said in the blessing really helped. He said that I
was "saving the world" and that I do more than I notice, he also said
that my siblings back home would be going to school teaching the gospel, being
examples, and saying how proud they were of me. Mostly encouragement things but
i really needed it and it helped a lot. He then asked me to give him a
blessing. I use to be so scared to give blessings and honestly didn’t know how
to follow the spirit well enough
in the blessings to know what to say. The one thing I have noticed that I have
gained from my mission is to know
and act on the promptings of the Spirit. A cool experience I had this week with
a prompting of the Spirit is when we went to go to a potential. We taught
him about the book of Mormon and were trying to discern his needs, all he kept saying to us
was "this book won’t give me what I’m looking for". Then after we testified to him about the book and
asked him what he is looking
for all he would
say is 1
Corinthians 7......Honestly Elder Nelson and I had no Idea what that chapter
was so we couldn’t help him. I did feel
prompted to show him a picture of the temple, testify of eternal families and
the plan of salvation. So I did and asked
him if he would like that for his wife and family someday. He looked at me with big eyes and said, “Yes”. I didn’t think anything of it, just that I freaked
him out. Once we got back into the car I looked at 1 Corinthians 7, it talked about
marriage. The Spirit just makes my job too easy, I love it and have a testimony
of the Holy Ghost. Right after dinner we
dashed over to Marcus's place and I knew he wouldn’t be able to come out and
see us but we still made an effort. He has a really bad back and bad arthritis
and it acts up when it is overcast.
It has been raining for 3 days nonstop so I just figured he would be cooped up
inside. I’ll keep y’all updated
on him when we get to meet with him. We haven’t really been able to meet with any
of our investigators these past few weeks, I don’t really know what’s going on
but we are trying our hardest still. That’s the bad thing about agency, if I
had it my way I’d be in the font all day long! "Onward, ever onward"
and "Press forward", are my motto right now. After that we went to
another less-actives house and gave them back to school blessings as well (we'll be giving a lot
this week). It was really cool to be on the other side of the blessing for the
first time in my life. I took the priesthood that I had readily available to me
in my home for granted. I’ve always been thankful for my Dad’s worthiness and
willingness to use his priesthood and all men everywhere should be striving for
that. If you’re not, I’m going to be blunt about it. You are
not fulfilling your purpose on this earth or in this church or as a father and
husband. Get worthy and be willing to serve.
This week I wanted to share a message about an experience I had Tuesday
at district meeting. Elder Nelson committed us to write in our journal
attributes that we each wanted in our future spouse, and to bring it to the
next meeting. Not physical attributes of course but what kind of person we want
in a spouse. It was really hard for me to do it and honestly took a lot of
consideration. This is eternity we are talking
about here people! Once I got my list written down and then it dawned on me why
he wanted us to write them down. "If I’m expecting to marry a person
with all of these
attributes, I have to be worthy of it myself and live up to the standards I
have set for my wife." Why should she deserve less than what I wanted? My
challenge for y'all this
week is to write
down either those attributes you love in your spouse or the ones that you want
in in your future spouse. Then to take serious consideration of where you stand
in meeting those standards. I promise you and testify as a representative of
our Lord Jesus Christ that if you set appropriate, good and eternal goals for
your spouse and try your hardest to achieve being worthy of a person like that,
that you will become closer to your Savior and will be more like Him. When we
try and look at Christ like attributes, it is sometimes hard to think you can achieve that
(even though we can). By doing this you
take a look at what potential you think you have, it gives you a goal and
incentive to achieve that goal, and I would hope that the things you wrote down
would be things that Christ himself would have had as an attribute. I love this
gospel, I love Jesus Christ, I love my Heavenly Father, and I love y'all and the support you
give me. All is Well
Elder Welch
It has been a
good week. Transfers happened and I actually really haven’t even been homesick
since Elder Nelson came on Wednesday which is nice, I’m too focused on directing the work
in the ward and trying to be obedient. I like it. So when Elders have a string
on their ties or pants or shirts we burn them off because it takes the string
clean off, I was burning a sting off my pants and kind of burnt a hole in my
pants ha-ha, so they’re getting patched up! I didn’t see they were 100%
polyester. It’s all good
though. I heard Bishop called y’all and had a nice chat, hope that was nice. I
love Bishop Smith.
This week was
so long, day by day, but looking back it flew by! For all that haven’t heard our
most promising investigator; Eileen, has been on a trip in New Orleans and was
with family. She must have heard a bunch of anti-doctrine and got talked out of
it by her family. I say that because when she came back she was
not interested in the gospel anymore, so no baptism this last week
unfortunately! Transfers happened on Wednesday and Elder Nelson came on in to
Fox Run! He is a great
missionary and is so funny.
He is absolutely
massive, he played football, rugby, and wrestled in high school. He's been out
14 months and his personality has reminded me a lot of Brendan Smith. I love
him. It’ll be a great and fun transfer! I’m excited for it. I love this
southern food and it has definitely gotten to me, yes it is possible for me to gain
weight unfortunately, I am now 150lbs, I have a baby fat role. It’s ok though,
I’m going to watch it this week and rebuke it. I’ll be emailing next week at
145lbs. Crazy story for this week happened last night! We were at this younger
couple’s house for dinner and he is in his residency for becoming a doctor. We
were just eating and talking and all of a sudden he gets up casually and goes to
the sink and it looked like he was going to puke, then runs over to his wife
and starts hitting her shoulder. She is 8 months pregnant and she turns and starts
giving him the Heimlich maneuver! She was literally picking him up every time
too, I’ve never seen a little pregnant lady with so much strength. The funny
part was her dad was there and it didn’t faze him at all, he just said he was fine
and kept eating while he was choking. He was fine after that though. Today I
hit my two month mark! Crazy how fast time has flown, 22 months left, but
who is counting?!
On Wednesday I got a text from my bishop and he told me that he had just gotten
off the phone with my dad. I was pretty surprised and then he asked me to sing
in sacrament meeting, so I got to sing One Voice yesterday and from the
response I got I feel its touched a lot of people so that was nice. Although
Eileen fell through we didn’t get 1 BCD this week (baptismal/confirmation
dates) Elder Foster and I had been teaching Marcus since I got here and he had
always been the hardest to teach because he won’t pray and ask for things cause
he doesn’t want to question God and last time he asked Him for something it
went completely wrong. Yesterday we taught him the gospel of Jesus Christ and I
have never been so guided by the spirit in a lesson before than I did in this
one. He committed to baptism on 9/14 and to ask if this church is true! He also felt like
baptism was cheating because he screwed up and didn’t feel like he should be
clean if he has messed up. I explained to him how it would be cheating Christ
if we didn’t use what he died for. I explained that it would be like if he gave
his son a new motorcycle and his son put it in the garage forever because he
doesn’t want to break it, it would be useless. I compared
it to that and it helped him realize the purpose of baptism and why we need to
use it. It was awesome and it was all because of the Spirit. I’ll be praying for
him that he has the courage to ask and continue to baptism.
This week I
wanted to share how teaching with the Spirit and being worthy of the
Spirit is essential.
I have experienced teaching with and without the Spirit and can testify that
it is the
Spirit that teaches. All I do as
a missionary is give
information and cry repentance. The Holy Ghost is what teaches and testifies what is true. It makes
missionary work a lot easier when we don’t have to worry about being the real
teacher we just need to be worthy of the Spirit. How do we do that? Obedience!
The things the scriptures and the prophets tell us to do aren’t suggestions,
they’re COMMANDments. We have been told to do them and will be judged according
to our obedience to them. I’ve said it once and I will say it again because
I’ve seen it in my mission work and in my life. Obedience brings blessings,
exact obedience brings miracles. Strive to be obedient and I promise Heavenly
Father will pour out His blessings upon you. I know the Book of Mormon is true! In the words of
Jeffrey R. Holland, "No evil man could write such a book and no good man
would write such a book unless commanded to do so by God". I love y’all and am grateful
for all of the
support coming from home. All is well!
Elder Welch
My goodness,
I’m already done with one transfer?! Only 16 more to go but who's counting
right?? So on Tuesday our zone leaders had a tradeoff with us and I got to go
with Elder Wilkey and stayed in Fox Run. I felt before they told us who was
with who and where we were going that I was going to stay in Fox Run, I didn’t
know why but I was right and I now know why I felt that. We just found out
about transfers today and my companion; Elder Foster, is getting transferred and
becoming a zone leader. That means I am staying here in Fox Run and kind of
taking charge and training my companion on the area. I am overwhelmed with
having to do that with only being 6 weeks out. No other person in my MTC
group is doing
that. It will be hard, it will be tiring, but it will be worth it and I know
that the Lord is preparing
me for greater things in my mission and in my life. Anyway...back to Tuesday.
We had a full day of biking around and knocking on potential investigators and
returning member houses and it was tiring! We worked really hard but planning
for the next day did take a while, I’ll get the hang of it this transfer for
sure! One of the few lessons we had planned for this week was with this lady
named Gina. I knew once we got there that something wasn’t normal. She told us
to go around the back to teach her since we couldn’t go inside to teach her
with there being no male home. So Elder Foster and I made our way back around
and saw her friend sitting there and I’ve never seen a lady so drunk and never
smelt alcohol on someone so strong. So we sat down since we didn’t think Gina
was drunk and could teach her. We were just talking for a little bit and then
saw that her friend had no pants on and could tell that Gina was drunk as well, so we ended the
conversation, bolted out of there, and dropped her. Craziest thing that has
happened on my mission so far! It’s been a rough week though, 9 lessons total
and a ton of tracting, August is the hottest time of the year too! I pray
that this next week will be better.
I’ve been thinking a lot this past week on what I wanted to share in
this message and I’m still not completely sure where the Spirit will guide me
during this so I pray that I will strengthen someone or help them to do
missionary work as well. I kind of
wanted to shape my message around enduring to the end. I have a story I want to
share with ya’ll too, it’s not true of course. This older member of the church
dies in a hospital one night and finds himself in heaven. He meets Jesus at the
gate and Jesus welcomes him into the kingdom and the first thing that this old
man sees are these massive mansions and he asks Christ if one of them is his. Christ says yes and
tells him to come follow him. They make their journey down a road that has tons
of the most beautiful buildings that anyone has ever seen and they finally
reach his. Christ welcomes him inside and the older man is amazed at the beauty of
the building. Marble floors, tons of space, and then he looks up and sees that
there is no roof
on his mansion. He turns to Christ and says, "what’s the big deal why
don’t I have a ceiling?! Christ simply turned to the man and said, "We
stopped building when you did". Let’s not be like
the man in this story, at many times in our life we feel like we are doing
pretty well and settle
for less than we and our Heavenly Father knows we can achieve. One way we can
do that is by
developing a lifestyle that Christ did. He was charitable. That is the one attribute that
will lead to success in almost everything you do. Be thankful for what Heavenly
Father gives to us, tell Him you are thankful, be thankful for those trials
that He gives us to strengthen us, be grateful for the small things in life,
and be grateful in bad times, mediocre times, and the best of times. I found
myself having the hardest time this week, I was brushing away those things that
Heavenly Father has given me and I wanted things my way. Faith in Heavenly
Father and Jesus Christ means that we not only have that trust in Them, but to
submit our will to Theirs and hand Them the reins. I love my Savior Jesus
Christ and Heavenly Father. I have felt their influence in my life and so much
in my mission. This week will be hard for me, I know it will be. I need to hand
the reins over, it’s not my life, and it’s His time to be the sculptor. I know
that our leaders are called of God and that this call for Elder Foster to leave
will be the best thing for me and for him. I will press forward in faith. I
will do what’s asked of me, and I will pray for that charity so that I can enjoy
it. I love you all and pray
for you daily. All is well!
Elder Welch